Developing healthy habits is the key to adopting healthy behaviors, which take time and intention to establish. Daily habits and thousands of small decisions determine who you become over time. Time often moves faster than we think, especially when hesitating to commit to changes that can lead to greater fulfillment and happiness.
No matter what type of goals you have or how lofty they may be, healthy habits and consistency are key! Early acceptance that success is not a linear trajectory but a series of failures and triumphs is another key to success.
Setting unrealistic goals, being inconsistent with your effort and intent, or expecting immediate results, whether in fitness or life, doesn't work.
So, how does a person go about setting a reasonable goal? How does the daily routine incorporate itself into the equation? How can you be sure that the healthier habits you adopt become lifelong behaviors?
Finally, why does any of this matter?
What Is A Habit?
Let's start here. What do we even mean when we talk about "healthy habits"?
A habit is a behavior you repeat regularly, sometimes as part of a routine and sometimes as an unconscious behavior.
For example, when anxious, you might be unconscious of biting your nails or touching your hair. I have an awkward habit of squinting when thinking deeply, which is probably uncomfortable for the other person when in a conversation.
Some examples of intentional habits are those parts of your morning routine that you do consecutively, regularly, or maybe without even considering them. You may have built the habit of going to the gym at a certain time, eating at a certain time, or watering your houseplants every Tuesday. These are all examples of habits.
Why Are Building Healthy Habits Important?
Healthy habits are important because our habits become our behaviors, which become major determining factors in our overall health. The health you enjoy in late life will directly result from today's habits.
Healthy behaviors take time; some enjoy greater privilege in establishing these behaviors than others. For example, folks who live below the poverty line or may not have access to nearby gyms, nutritious food, or free time to invest in themselves are disadvantaged. Women, who complete 75 percent of the world's unpaid labor (managing household finances, childrearing, cooking, cleaning, and similar responsibilities), often struggle to allocate and justify time dedicated to health, recovery, or self-care.
Here's Why Your Unhealthy Habits Need to Change.
Firstly, no caregiver can provide thorough, effective care to others without caring for themselves. Burnout is real; our children and families often model their behavior after ours. Do you care what your child's/niece's/nephew's/cousin's quality of life will be in adulthood and later life? Then, show them how to prioritize healthy activities and self-care.
Second, healthy habits today can prevent future chronic diseases, including those you are at higher risk for. Scientists now understand that most gene expression depends on environmental and behavioral factors. What does that mean? It means even if you're at high risk for a condition because it runs in your family, your choice, habits, and behavior over time will often determine whether or not you experience those illnesses.
Lastly, if you're not building healthy habits, you're probably perpetuating unhealthy ones. You will watch it decline as you age if you're not actively working toward better health.
This brings me to my next topic.
How To Recognize Habits That Aren't Serving You
Throughout the years, I've known many people whose habits contribute to their failures over time. Whether health, interpersonal, or professional, your habits become who you are.
For example, let's assume you're in the habit of buying coffee every morning from the same coffee shop.
This is a habit. Is it a "healthy" one? Is it "unhealthy"?
For starters, let's consider the coffee. What's in your coffee? Lots of cream, sugar, and calories that are sabotaging your macronutrient balances and caloric goals? Let's assume the coffee is black and the only one you have daily.
I put "healthy" and "unhealthy" in quotes intentionally. Those words are ambiguous and very poorly defined. In fact, it's my belief that we shouldn't use them at all.
So when deciding whether a habit is "healthy" or not, consider whether it's bringing you closer to your life goals. If it isn't, it's contributing to your failure.
To return to the coffee example, ask whether that habit serves you. Does the caffeine help you jumpstart your morning work or workout without making you jittery, tired, or agitated later? Does interacting with the barista help you build confidence, learn about humanity, or brighten someone's day? Do you pay it forward? Maybe you're cold or indifferent toward the people around you, and the coffee disrupts your sleep. Is this habit serving you?
Understanding which habits are serving you and hindering your success can be complex. But don't worry, it's possible.
And it all starts with goal setting.
Goal Setting: Choosing A Goal You Can Stick To
Setting goals and taking small, sustainable steps toward those goals each day will help you decide which habits are working for you and which are against you. Consider your habits in contrast with your goals and keep the habits that bring you closer to them.
Don't be overwhelmed if you have a clearly defined goal or have no idea where to begin. There's a simple and effective way to set goals that you're likely to keep, which is why you've probably heard its corny acronym before, especially if you work in the corporate world:
The S.M.A.R.T. Goal.
SMART goals are analyzed through a template that ensures your goal is possible and can reasonably be attained. The acronym stands for Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, Time-Bound. The first step to success is using these parameters to pinpoint your goal.
If you run into trouble defining your life goals, consider what you would like to have done with your life before you leave. Brainstorm ideas and continue brainstorming or researching until you understand what it would take.
It might seem overwhelming, so make sure you commit after knowing what would be required to meet your goal. Then, break your goal down into smaller goals.
Maybe you want to become a pro-bono lawyer for a human rights group but have only a few college credits under your belt. Do some research and clearly understand the time and resources your goal would require. Are you willing to invest 6+ years and tens of thousands of dollars in meeting this goal? Even though most of your services will not provide you with the financial means you need for a comfortable life, will it fulfill you?
If yes, congratulations. You're ready for the next step.
How To Handle Accountability
Once you have a clearly defined goal, it's time to set the wheels of health habit formation into motion. This begins with breaking your goal into smaller, time-bound goals.
If a law degree is what you need, research what that entails. What would you need to do in the next year to begin working toward that goal? What about the next month? What can you do this week to take a small step in the right direction?
A healthy habit I try to work toward is mindful, focused writing for a larger manuscript I'm working on because someday I hope to be a published author. I must work toward a smaller goal of 35 monthly pages to meet that goal in the next two years. That means to stay on track. I have to be in the habit of writing at least one page per day.
Keeping accountability for your long-term goals means checking in with yourself regularly, short-termly. To determine my short-term goals, I wrote out my 20-year goals, broke those into 10-year goals, and so on. I keep this outline on my refrigerator and check in periodically to ensure I'm still on track.
If you have trouble with accountability, try setting yourself up for success in a way that will appeal to you. For example, you might celebrate small wins, use colorful stationery or a whiteboard to track your progress,, or ask close friends and family to check in with your progress occasionally.
Journaling is another great way to maintain accountability and build a healthier lifestyle. It can be a very therapeutic experience and help you look back on your behaviors and experiences to identify better what daily obstacles you can remove from your life and what triggers "bad" habits or habits that are keeping you from reaching your goals.
Meal-tracking apps, workout notebooks, and other habit-tracking apps are also great ways to track your progress, keep yourself accountable, and celebrate small victories.
When all else fails, hiring an online coach can be a highly effective means to an end. Ensure your coach has the credentials to help you succeed and appeal to whatever intrinsically motivates you.
Habit Forming Tips
Luckily, behavioral scientists have essentially cracked the code for the habit-forming process, and it's simpler than we think.
It takes intention. Repeat the behaviors you need to repeat to meet your goals. Can't seem to get into the habit? Then, approach small parts of that task that are manageable for you and continue repeating those behaviors until they become a habit.
Sometimes, when I know I need to take advantage of calm weather and go for a run, I just don't want to. So I start with something I can manage, like getting dressed, putting my shoes on, and choosing what music I want to get into before I even consider stepping out. Then, when the mood to run strikes me, I jump on it.
Repeated behaviors that continue beyond 30 days often become habits, but that number changes from person to person. Making a goal of completing a small task that supports your goal every day for thirty days is a great place to start.
If you miss a day, don't sweat it. Just jump back on track the next day, expect occasional mistakes, and work to be better only than the version of you that exists today, no one else.
Fall Down 7 Times, Get Up 8
This is one of the most important lessons to learn to achieve health and fitness goals.
Success is not linear. You will fail sometimes, and that's okay. It's part of being human, and we all (yes, WE ALL) do it. Sometimes, having bad days, making mistakes, or losing consistency is okay. What's important is what you do next.
Return to that positive inner dialogue, and talk to yourself like you would talk to a friend going through the same thing. Write down what happened and consider what you can do to prevent it in the future. Your goal should not be perfection; your goal should be to be better than you were yesterday.
Learn from your mistakes. Dust yourself off. Get back on your grind.
Don't let a bad day derail you or prevent your future successes. Be consistent, stay positive, and give yourself grace when you stumble. It will all be worth it.
Enjoy The Journey and Learning About Yourself
Remember that balance and moderation are the keys to good health and happiness. Too much of anything can become detrimental to your goals, so avoid over-exerting, over-committing, or over-training to reach your goal faster.
It may sound like a lofty or annoyingly idealist tip to say, "Enjoy the journey." I truly believe that mindfulness, intention, patience, and self-love are the greatest rewards of any successful journey. Take this time to allow yourself to experience the failures, the highs, and the lessons without letting them overwhelm you. Take this time to learn to embrace the journey and better understand yourself because you're important.
How Your Success Story Shapes The World
When you change how you see yourself and your abilities and experience the profound changes that can come from small, intentional daily habits, you not only begin to change, you begin to change the world around you.
Don't believe me? Guess how much kinder I am to today's barista than I was to the barista ten years ago, when I was new to the industry, unsure of myself, unestablished, unsupported, and out of shape. My failures and successes have taught me humility, grace, gratitude, and that everyone is experiencing their own personal struggle, whether you recognize it or not.
They've also taught me the power of self-love, small sustainable changes in daily habits, and positivity within my inner dialogue.
Whether you're just trying to live a healthier lifestyle or trying to be the change you want to see in the world and inspire others to chase their dreams, healthy daily habits can be incredibly powerful.
Even if you're content in your current routine, it's important to assess periodically whether you're on track to meet your goals. Don't assume that time is infinite. Life is short.
The good news is you can turn your dreams into your reality, no matter how big or challenging you think those goals might be. For more help, contact us for the Free Consultation Consultation and Training Program.
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